DISCUSSION: Is Gambling Ungodly?

  For about four days last September, I spent an average of 3-hours each day in a cybercafé close to my parents’ home. As it turned out, that cybercafé also doubled as a registered bookie for an online sports betting site presently operating in Nigeria. Within those four days, I observed as young men trooped into the cybercafé to do …

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Why don’t mother and daughter-in-laws get along?

  “I pray my mother-in-law is dead before I marry my husband’ I was in my first year in the university, when my room mate uttered those words. I initially thought she was only joking when she said it, but I soon realized that she wasn’t. Her mother’s distasteful experiences and those of the ‘many’ married women she knew and …

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DISCUSSION: But for our genotypes, we’d be married

Though married for several years, Toyin’s heart aches for the love that she sacrificed for the sake of her unborn children. Now stuck in an unhappy marriage, she sometimes wonders if that sacrifice was worth it. “Maybe I and Femi should have ‘taken the risk’ and forged ahead in faith. After all, there was only a 25% chance that each …

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